Psychologists often say that
it is quite difficult treating anxiety in
childhood. Often there is a form of abuse at
home or school that the child feels they
shouldn't be talking about, even to a
psychologist due to the fear that they will be
in trouble again. Fortunately this is not
always the case. In law, if there is any abuse
happening in the home of a child it is a
doctor's duty to inform the relevant
authorities who can protect them from further
harm.
Treating anxiety in children can be
further complicated if a child is not old enough to talk or
understand what is meant as information is not supposed to
be introduced into the child's mind to elicit
answers.However, there
are other subtle ways of getting information out of
children. Often games are used when treating anxiety in
children of this age group and if the child is also shy or
reserved.
Luckily there are drugs used to treat
anxiety, although these are not always recommended for
treating anxiety in children. It would be nice if we could
just take the fear and anxiousness out of the child with a
wave of a wand, but you would have to take them out of their
day to day surroundings, and also give them lots and lots of
love and enough attention so that they know they are not
being discarded or abandoned.
If you could ask any tiny child what is
their biggest anxiety, it would be the fear of losing their
parents, as opposed to the punishment they might get for
wetting the bed again. So when treating anxiety in children,
it is important to use a bit of reverse psychology on a
regular basis to get them to do what is needed. However this
is not the only way for treating anxiety in children.
Pictures, games, dolls and other forms are only tools to get
what information is needed out of the child, besides doing a
physical health check on the child.
Love And Positive
Nurturing
If you are treating anxiety in children
you will find that this anxiety could have arisen or learnt
from others in their day to day lives. It would be the case
of monkey see, monkey do, and it is seen as normal to them.
It is not usual, but at an early stage, it is difficult for
them to overcome these fears on their own, so the need to be
loved and nurtured positively to overcome these problems on
their own, is essential.