Do you
experience anxiety every time you are
left alone or whenever your loved one
leaves the house? You could have
separation anxiety. Separation anxiety
usually stems from a childhood where you
were abandoned or when you were left
alone or in a strange environment and you
had a fear that nobody was going to
return for you. Lots of
people live with separation anxiety but
coping with separation anxiety becomes
necessary if you want to live a normal
life.
First you should learn to recognize the
symptoms of the anxiety so that you can learn ways of coping
with separation anxiety before it becomes a problem. Then
you should try to get some help either from a licensed
therapist or through a doctor.
Recognizing
Symptoms
Coping with separation anxiety can easily
be done by recognizing the symptoms and then dealing with
them before they become a problem. The symptoms of anxiety
are usually a rapid heartbeat, a flushed face, nervousness,
a panic attack, rapid breathing and there are sometimes a
few others.
Coping with separation anxiety can be done
by practicing deep breathing exercises whenever you feel the
symptoms coming. For example, if your loved one is leaving
for work and you begin to feel very nervous all of a sudden,
you should close your eyes and breathe deeply ten times very
slowly until the symptoms subside. This may work for you. If
it doesn't, it may be time to get some help for your
disorder.
Getting
Help
Coping with separation anxiety may require
the help of a licensed therapist or a doctor. Make an
appointment with one of them and visit regularly. You'll
more than likely find out why you developed the disorder,
usually in your childhood, why you are experiencing it in
adulthood and you'll also probably find some exercises or
other ways of coping with separation anxiety so that you can
live life normally.
Some people can accomplish coping with
separation anxiety through talks with a therapist and some
do it through the use of medication. It really depends on
the severity of the disorder and how strongly it affects
your life. Don't feel ashamed or embarrassed because you
have the disorder. Instead, recognize that you have it and
then get help for it.
Lots of adults have this disorder and many
are coping with separation anxiety disorder just as you are.
Just make sure you get the help you need before it affects
your life too strongly.